{"id":160,"date":"2018-12-22T16:06:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-22T16:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.talesfromtheboatshed.com\/?p=160"},"modified":"2018-12-22T16:06:17","modified_gmt":"2018-12-22T16:06:17","slug":"gifts-and-fettling-but-definitely-no-trades","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.talesfromtheboatshed.com\/?p=160","title":{"rendered":"Gifts and fettling &#8230; and not trading in."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Another year older and a lovely day, spending time together, and with family and friends.  A birthday not spent at work, and somehow more enjoyable than usual &#8211; perhaps because of how it was spent, perhaps because of the turning tide of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We had brunch with our biker buddies, fellow veterans of two Harley Davidson-riding tours in the USA; and an evening meal with our children, their other halves and our grandson; good food, great company, and lots of laughter.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I received many gifts, and they followed two common themes: alcohol and woodworking.  The tools included a Joseph Marples bevel gauge, Thomas Flinn saws and a chisel hammer.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most new tools require a little finishing or, I think the term is, fettling, and I have already fettled the hammer, shaping the handle for comfort and changing the finish from a shiny thin varnish to BLO (boiled linseed oil) with wax to follow.  This process, is not a chore &#8211; there is real satisfaction in honing a factory finished edge, reshaping a handle &#8230; of making a tool &#8220;mine.&#8221; I hope it reflects my aspiring craftsmanship.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alcohol came in the form of a gin-making kit (no, HMRC, I am not setting up an illicit distillery), whisky and a box of Badger beers. The latter include a bottle of well-named Tanglefoot ale.  Seeing it, I was reminded of a training event I attended in 1989.  This was a three day course in paediatrics, giving training to undertake six-week baby checks.  It was based in Dorchester, and we were living in Southampton, so I stayed in a B&amp;B in a nearby village.  The village pub sold the local Badger brewery ales, and a couple of pints of this said brew did indeed tangle my feet on my walk back, and have the room spinning when I fell into bed!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is a moot point whether Practice nurses and Nurse Practitioners can, with a two day course and some mentoring, take over the six-week baby checks.  I have my doubts: hip examination is one thing, but listening for heart murmurs, checking femoral pulses, and examining eyes for a &#8220;red reflex&#8221; can be difficult for even experienced doctors.  We need to be careful, lest the GP shortage leads to inappropriate delegation of work that requires a GP&#8217;s experience and clinical judgment.   Delegation should only be made to those who have been fully trained and thoroughly assessed and who have the necessary background experience &#8211; for safety, diagnostic and medico-legal reasons.  Maybe I am a grumpy old Luddite &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230; indeed, I received a jar of &#8216;Grumpy Old Man&#8217;s Mustard&#8217; from James and Steph.  I hope that this gift will prove to be less well-named, or at least less appropriately-named.   I have not been the most relaxed of husbands and Dads, nor the happiest doctor of late at work.  However, I dare to hope that I will be a lot less grumpy than hitherto, as I step off the treadmill that  General Practice has become in recent years, and turn to learning to work wood with my hands.  I am really looking forward to putting to use my expanding collection of tools, both newly gifted and those that I have inherited or have been passed on to me from friends and patients.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The wittiest card award goes to my brother Darryl &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.talesfromtheboatshed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/DSC08384-1024x768.jpg?resize=720%2C540\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-166\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;. and the funniest present award, to Siobhan &#8211; &#8220;No,&#8221; I assured Sylvia, &#8220;I would not trade you for all the woodworking tools in the world!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.talesfromtheboatshed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/DSC08379-1024x768.jpg?resize=720%2C540\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-165\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another year older and a lovely day, spending time together, and with family and friends. A birthday not spent at work, and somehow more enjoyable than usual &#8211; perhaps because of how it was spent, perhaps because of the turning tide of life. 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